5 raisons pour lesquelles certaines personnes sont toujours célibataires. On peut se retrouver célibataire à un moment donné de la vie en raison de certaines circonstances ou simplement par habitude. Certaines personnes aiment le statut de célibataire; d’autres ne le font pas, et ceux-là sont prêts à aller jusqu’au bout juste pour sortir du statut de célibataire. Être célibataire n’est pas mauvais, mais cela pourrait donner lieu à de nombreuses spéculations. Être seul quand vous êtes en âge d’être dans une relation amoureuse peut avoir de nombreuses raisons différentes ; à partir de là, c’est un choix de ne pas avoir trouvé le bon partenaire. Nous parlons ici de certaines des raisons les plus courantes pour lesquelles les personnes âgées à ce jour pourraient encore être célibataires.
- THEY MADE A CHOICE TO BE SINGLE
Being alone can simply be a choice. A growing number of people are making a choice to remain single. This doesn’t mean they renounce sex, but they want to entertain a romantic relationship, a casual relationship. Some will decide to be single after a bad relationship, others after witnessing bad relationships, learn from other people’s mistakes. One way or another, these persons genuinely enjoyed being alone, not attached to anyone. They valued their freedom. Some people are just too busy to actually make time to be in a serious relationship. Others are not just ready to settle with only one person.
- THEY ARE STILL ON THE SEARCH FOR THE RIGHT ONE
Another significant reason some people are still single is that they haven’t found the right partner yet; they are still looking and hoping to find someone who will tick all the boxes. Some people are still single as a defence mechanism; they have been so hurt, have been so unlucky before; they met many potential partners, but they got deceived in the end. So, they take their time to search for the one, the philosophy resume that they instead remain alone, single than being disappointed or in a bad relationship.
- THEY ARE READY, BUT THEIR PARTNERS ARE NOT
One big reason for people still being single is they are ready to take the leap, but their partners are not, so they are waiting for their partners to level up, to be at the same level of thinking and feeling, then officialise the relationship. This has the potential risk that the partner might never be ready or find someone else.
- THEY HAVE TOO HIGH EXPECTATIONS
Some people are still single because they have too high expectations. They do not have realistic expectations. They are looking for someone who is no less than perfect, who absolutely tick all the points on their list with no exception. They demand too much; they are perfectionists. Their own standards are so high that no one at the end can fill them. So, they find themselves alone.
- THEY ARE NOT PUTTING THEMSELVES OUT ENOUGH THERE
As the common saying state, there may not be ‘enough fishes in your particular sea’. You need to widen your perspectives and your possibilities. You need to put yourself out there and be open-minded. No one knows where, when and how the right one will come, therefore do not frown upon any way you can meet new people such as online dating, blind dating…
Reasons why some people are still singles are endless; they include:
- Choosing to be single,
- Still looking for the right one,
- Being ready but partners are not,
- Having too high expectations,
- Not putting yourself out enough there.
The list could go on. These are the most common reasons.
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