How to be sure to attract more men? You could be putting a lot of effort to attract men but to no avail, or you succeed in attracting the wrong ones. Attracting men could be labelled as a set of art that takes much more than the usual ‘dolling up’. Indeed, to attract men, especially the type you desire, you have to adhere or implement some skills. You need not necessarily bring your game up but maybe learn the different values, attributes most men are looking after, and then work on that. Like the saying, ‘beauty is not everything’, t takes much more than beauty to make a good ‘catch’. Here we share some tips that will serve as basics to attract men.
This might seem obvious, but many women make the mistake to hide their authentic personalities when they meet men with whom they could potentially have a romantic relationship. They either undervalue themselves or overdo it. It is essential to be yourself. Do not start on the wrong foot. You underdoing it may sap your chances; some men do not want to be involved with women who lack confidence, have low self-esteem, and cannot stand for themselves. On the other hand, overdoing it can catch you up and turn against you; it can make you look like a liar. So, show your real self, be yourself as much as possible.
Another vital point is cleanliness. Actually, this is very important. You do not want to lose out because of a matter of hygiene. But this happens more than often. Being clean does not mean having to make up on, ‘dolling up’ all the time. It means being hygienically clean, not dirty, not having body odours such as bad breath, smelly hair, stinky underarms… being clean means taking regular showers or baths, being neat, having clean nails, clean hair, clean clothes. Clean teeth, keeping all types of body hair under control, meaning well-groomed or trimmed or removed.
If you have an issue being clean and neat, you will have a more significant issue attracting men. Some women make the mistake of overusing perfumes to hide body Odors. This does not work; on the contrary, it could make the situation much worse.
First impressions are crucial. Be honest when engaging with men. You do not have to gargle out the story of your life at once. But try as much as possible to be honest in your answers. Be honest when interacting. You never know where the meeting, the relationship will take you. Do not say or do things that could bear you prejudice later down the line. Remember that the way you gage and process everything the man will say is the same way he is gaging, processing and retaining what you are saying, information he could later use.
To attract men, you have to be approachable. If your aim is to attract men, try not to put yourself on a pedestal, playing too hard to get. You should Adopt good attitudes such as returning greetings, accepting compliments, not ignoring potential partners…having good attitudes would make you more lovable, more attractive, would make people want to be around you. And this will ultimately increase your chances. Overall, show your easy-going side.
Another critical point is to show interest to the men who approach you. You should Take an interest in what they are doing, inquire about them, their lives, their hobbies, empathise and support them when needed. The relationship is not all about you; it is about both of you. Do not cut or stop them when they are explaining something to you.
How to be sure to attract more men? By simply start implementing those simple tips:
- Being yourself,
- Being clean,
- Being honest,
- Being approachable,
- Showing interest.
Doing so will indubitably increase your chances of not only attracting more men but the type you are yearning for. Do you know any other tips? Please share in the comments section.