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BEING SEXUALLY COMPATIBLE OR NOT WITH PARTNER

 Being sexually compatible or not with partner. It is not a secret that sex has an important place in most romantic relationships. But it is not guaranteed that your partner, who is supposed to be the person you like, is sexually compatible with you. It is common to see couples not sexually at the same level, meaning they do not have the same libido. Some couples can manage if the difference between their sexual needs is not too vast. Others, on the other hand, could face serious difficulties leading to arguments, adultery and most of the time, end up in breakups. So, how do you know if you are sexually compatible or not with your partner? Here we provide you with some signs to determine if you are or not.

 

SIGNS SHOWING YOU ARE COMPATIBLE 

It is not difficult to know if you are compatible with your partner. Being compatible does not necessarily mean that you both have a high sex drive. There are a few scenarios; common ones are: both partners have a high sex drive; both partners have an average sex drive, or both have low or absent libido. In any of these cases, for partners to be sexually compatible, they need to have the same or similar sexual relationship or behaviour towards sex; they need to have the same sex drive.

 

 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE NOT COMPATIBLE 

The relationship where the partners are not compatible is relatively easy to spot. For instance, if you are in this type of relationship, the first thing that popped is that the partners’ sex drive is different. One partner will keep making excuses to have sex, denying the other partner. There will be more arguments about sex, sometimes leading to more severe issues such as cheating, adultery, separation. Not having the same sex drive should not be an issue. Once you realise there is a problem, you may want to take appropriate action. If you are the problem, meaning you are not keeping up sexually, try to improve yourself, increase your libido to match up or find a compromise with your partner. You can learn anything if you have the will. If the issue lies with your partner, communicate with them diplomatically to find a solution. As Esther Perel, a Belgian psychotherapist, said, ‘fix the sex, and your relationship will transform.’

 

CONCLUSION

Being sexually compatible or not with partner. simply put, you are if you have the same sexual behaviours with your partner. you are not if you do not, in this case, you can take proper steps to keep up with your partner as advised. Do you have any other recommendations? Please share in the comments box.

 

 

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