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6 SIGNS YOU ARE UNHAPPY IN THE RELATIONSHIP

6 signs you are unhappy in the relationship. Is your relationship taking a toll on you? A romantic relationship can change as time goes. Some positively change leading to strong, others showed cracked and lamentably failed, ultimately leading to separation or a one-way relationship where one partner feel left out. Living together can be challenging in the second scenario, where the relationship did not evolve as expected.  

 

Partners really get to know each other on all levels: bad or good behaviours, attitudes towards obstacles, and overall lifestyles. From that, some partners discovered after the initial sparks that they have little or no compatibility. Some partners can realise straight away that something is wrong and take the necessary actions, but others cannot see or spot the signs that the relationship is taking a toll on them. Here are some proven signs that show that the relationship is weighing on you.  

 

1. YOU HAVE A PERSISTENT FEELING OF BEING UNFULFILLED  

One significant sign that the relationship takes a toll on you is the persistent feeling of being unfulfilled. You will have a constant sense of missing something in the relationship. You are feeling like your needs are not met, or worse, you are being ignored. If you think that way and you are not happy, that means something needs to be addressed. The best thing to do is to determine the trigger of this feeling. Once you know, you proceed to correct it. If this is something you can solve by yourself, by all mean, do it. But if you need your partner’ input to fix it, communicate with them to find the best convenient solution. 

 

2. YOU DO NOT MISS YOUR PARTNER WHEN APART
Another significant sign that should draw your attention is when you do not miss your partner when you are apart. You realised that you like being alone than being with them; you actually wish for them to be all the time away from you. You do not look forward to seeing them like you used to. That is a big red flag. If you are feeling that way, that definitely denote a severe issue in the relationship. It either means that you maybe do not love them anymore or you are afraid of them. In this case, you should deeply reflect on yourself to determine the exact cause; once you know, take the appropriate action to give you peace of mind and happiness.

 

3. YOU EASILY GET INTO ARGUMENTS WITH THEM 

 

All relationships have their share of disagreements or arguments. That’s not a secret, but if you find yourself in a relationship where you are constantly arguing with your partner, this is a sign that something is seriously wrong. You realised that all your conversations ended up with arguments, you became out of patience with your partner, and you can no longer communicate with them in a civilised manner. That means there is an issue that needs to be addressed. Being impatient or short temper could mean many things, including lack of love, lack of trust, fear…it is imperative to look for the exact cause, then take appropriate action to solve the issues. Otherwise, this could end up in tragedy. 

 

4. YOU ARE NOT LOOKING FORWARD TO YOUR INTIMATE MOMENTS

Not wanting to get intimate with your partner could signify that your relationship is weighing on you. You constantly find yourself making excuses, giving excuses to avoid having sex with them. You basically dread having intimate times with your partner. You don’t enjoy yourself as you used to be. Sexual intercourse, instead of being fun, enjoyable, became a chore, an obligation that you want to avoid. If this applies to you, you should check your relationship unless you feel something is wrong due to medical issues. You should seek the real causes and solve them. Either way. 

 

5. YOU FEEL OVERWHELMED

Another red flag in the relationship is a persistent feeling of being overwhelmed. You feel overwhelmed not by your job’s responsibilities but by your romantic relationship management. You have the feeling: 

  •  that you are giving more,
  • that you are doing more,
  •  that you are being taken advantage of,
  • that you are not appreciated enough,
  • that you are not comfortable with the way, finances are managed in the relationship…

Overall, the relationship is not what you think it would be; you have too many responsibilities. If you believe that you are doing everything in the relationship and you are not happy about the situation, you should take the necessary actions to correct it. 

 

6. YOU WANT TO END IT

When you start thinking the unthinkable meaning ‘breaking up, it could mean that the line is drawn and you are looking for a way out. Usually, when you find yourself thinking about ending it, it means you may have tried to solve the issues but failed. So now your option is to salvage yourself, and you will be thinking about the best way to end it. Some people are bold enough to just call it ‘quit’, but others might find it difficult to part ways. It could be maybe they invest too much in the relationship, they cannot see any other way; or because of their children they choose to endure, or because of financial issues, they will choose to remain. 

 

CONCLUSION  

6 signs you are unhappy in the relationship. If you find yourself in one of these situations, such as: 

  • having a persistent feeling of being unfulfilled,
  • not missing your partner when you are apart,
  •  quickly getting into arguments with your partner,
  • not looking forwards to intimate moments with your partner,
  • Feeling overwhelmed,
  • Wanting to end the relationship.

Then yes, you are unhappy in your relationship. Do you know any other signs? Please share in the comments box. 

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